As
with most real-life families, relationships in this film
are a combination of humour and emotion, usually both at
the same time. Writer-director Bezucha deftly avoids stereotypes
to bring us an entertaining and honest family comedy.
Sybil
and Kelly Stone (Keaton and Nelson) have their five kids
home in New England for Christmas. Eldest son Everett (Mulroney)
brings his uptight new girlfriend (Parker), who doesn't
gel with the Stone's bohemian liberalism, so she asks her
sister (Danes) to join them. Earth mother Susan (Reaser)
arrives pregnant, with her precocious daughter (Stehlin).
Ben (Wilson) brings his hippy vibe with him from Berkeley.
Thad (Giordano) has the most stable relationship--with partner
Patrick (White). And Amy (McAdams) just can't let anything
remain unsaid. It's going to be an eventful Christmas.
While
the film has the lively energy of any wacky holiday comedy,
there's a raw subtext that makes it much more than that--recognisable
tenderness and cruelty, isolation and physical intimacy,
subtle liaisons and hard-to-surmount barriers. This is an
astute examination of family relationships that brilliantly
balances biting satire and warm affection. Bezucha clearly
understands how relatives mean the world to us and also
drive us crazy, and he slices through each scene with shrewd
insight that actually takes us somewhere.
The
characters maintain their complexity through fine writing
and superior performances. Keaton can play this kind of
role in her sleep, but even she's challenged by Sybil, and
shines in several remarkable scenes. Everyone in this seamless
cast has their moments; our lingering affection for Parker's
tense New Yorker is a nice surprise, as are the tenderness
that orbits Giordano's character and the telling cracks
in McAdams' bravado.
In the
end, the film perhaps won't tell us anything we don't already
know. But that's not the point. The bookend scenes are startlingly
distinct, yet exactly the same. The confrontations touch
on everyday taboos like race, sexuality, illness and disability.
In such a black comedy, the powerful surge of emotion catches
us off guard. Maybe the point is that we're not so different
after all: everyone's a mess, and that's not necessarily
a bad thing.
Ok,
when was the last time that we had a holiday movie that
didn’t involve Tim Allen, Santa Claus, an elf or something
nostalgic.
Well
I am happy to report that the new holiday film, The Family
Stone, is probably the best holiday film I have seen in
years.
The
Stone family reunites during the holidays to get to know
the latest addition to their family, Meredith Morton (Sarah
Jessica Parker). Meredith is soon to be engaged to the Stone’s
oldest son, Everett (Dermot Mulroney). But his family isn’t
going to make it easy for him.
Everett’s
mother (Diane Keaton) doesn’t want to give up a family
heirloom to her son for his wedding and she is also keeping
a deep secret from her son. Everett’s sister (Rachel
McAdams) can’t stand Meredith and her quirky ways.
Everett’s brother (Luke Wilson) would just rather
that everyone just mellowed out and was happy.
“The
Family Stone” reawakens the biggest treasure of all
during the holidays. It isn’t the turkey, the cooking,
the presents, or some demented white-bearded fat white guy
in a red suit who keeps insisting he can fit down a chimney
or even a complex-ridden reindeer who we all know is probably
gay.
The
biggest treasure of all during the holidays is reawakening
what family means to all of us. And to quote another white-bearded
fat white guy, who happens to be from Jurassic Park, “We
spare no expense”. When it comes to the holidays we
really don’t spare any expense when it comes to reawakening
those family values. We hold so dear.
There
really isn’t one distinguishing performance in this
brilliant ensemble comedy that stands out. If I had to choose
favorites they would be hands down, Diane Keaton and Rachel
McAdams.
Is there
any reason not to scream for any performance from Ms. Keaton?
The woman is brilliant in everything she does. In this film
you can feel her anguish, love and desire. Her emotions
and interactions with the entire cast is brilliant. It is
amazing how an actress can be good for such a very long
time.
The
reason I singled out McAdams was that I usually don’t
praise her and I am not a big fan. Here she plays a character
she wouldn’t typically play and does it without flinching.
I loved her “bumming around the house look”
as the “pain in the ass” sister who hates everyone.
She’s funny, unforgiving and definitely memorable.
Another
thing I liked about the film was how intense it can be at
one moment and hilarious the next. Probably my favorite
scene in the whole piece is a rather intense dinner scene
where Meredith asks an inappropriate question to Everett’s
gay and deaf brother. The scene is unbelievably brilliant.
I am
spending the holidays alone this year due to some rather
insidious scheduling conflicts but I needed a film like
“The Family Stone” to remind me of all the joyous
and blissful times I have had at this time of year throughout
my life. This truly is a film that you need to share with
your loved ones during this time of year.
For
all the others out there spending the holidays away from
loved ones, I drop a shot of Bailey’s in my coffee
and salute you. Sorry, this review got mushy but it was
that kind of film if you know what I mean. I also want to
take this opportunity to wish you and all those you hold
dear, Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas.
The Family Stone Cast:
Diane Keaton, Sarah Jessica Parker, Dermot Mulroney,
Claire Danes,
Luke Wilson, Rachel McAdams, Craig T Nelson, Tyrone
Giordano,
Brian White, Elizabeth Reaser, Paul Schneider, Savannah
Stehlin