Finding
the right mate can be an exhausting ordeal. Finding the
mate your parents think is right for you can be even worse.
In the urban romance “Prime,” that’s the
plight David Metzger (Bryan Greenberg) faces when he hooks
up with an “older woman” -- much older. David,
a 23-year-old living with his grandparents, yearns to be
a painter. His mother, Lisa (Meryl Streep), is of all things,
a therapist who thinks painting is a hobby, not a career,
at least for David.
Enter the beautiful
and sexy 37-year-old Rafi (Uma Thurman), a recent divorcee
and photographer who meets David at an independent movie.
The two are in bed practically before the end credits roll.
After both lie about their age, Rafi whisks David off to
her plush Manhattan apartment.
The two lead
actors are very suited to these characters. Thurman is beautiful
and fun, which makes it easy to play a similar character.
Rafi seems exactly what David needs in his life. An older
woman who will take him out of the sheltered family he feels
sometimes suffocates him, yet one as exciting and sexy as
Rafi, makes it a double jackpot for him.
Rafi, still
reeling from the pain of her divorce, sees David as a burst
of fresh energy like nothing she’s experienced before.
She almost wants to pinch herself each time she thinks about
the difference in their ages and why he would want to be
with her.
While the two
start dating and David actually moves in, Rafi continues
to make her weekly visits to her therapist, you guessed
it -- Lisa. At first, as Rafi goes into detailed sexual
explanations about her new love, Lisa doesn’t realize
that the man she’s talking about happens to be her
own son. When Lisa finally learns this fact, she’s
caught between her moral obligation and personal dilemma.
As the hormones
of their relationship settle down, and real life begins
anew for the couple, Rafi and David’s differences
begin to surface. She’s working hard, he’s unemployed.
She likes a clean place, he makes it messy all day leaving
beer bottles, clothes and food items strewn about. But these
are cosmetic problems. More serious are their differences
in their faiths and ages.
Things escalate
and soon there’s too little therapy to go around.
Lisa knows her son needs guidance but she can’t break
her confidence with her patient. Caught in a dilemma, she
herself goes for therapy. When she realizes that Rafi and
David really love each other, Lisa meets them halfway and
invites them both to dinner.
Realizing her
biological clock is ticking and that David is still in his
prime, Rafi breaks off the relationship. David goes out
with his buddy, ties one on, and ends up sleeping with one
of Rafi’s co-workers. That’s all Rafi needs
to figure out this may not be the relationship for her.
Great performances
by Streep, Thurman and Greenberg make us like their characters
and keep this plot moving. Streep is top notch at candid
humor when she wants to be, and as a nurturing mom who wants
to protect her son, she’s perfect. The laughs in “Prime”
keep coming, as do the hopes for someone to have a happy
ending.