Beginning
deceptively with three-decades-old home movies of young
children, “39 Pounds of Love” at once corrects
that impression with titles indicating that shortly after
birth, Ami Ankilewitz was diagnosed with a rare form of
MD, Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type II, and written off with
a life expectancy of six years, at the outside. More handhelds
follow showing the backyard celebration of his thirty-fourth
birthday in Tel Aviv, where his Mexican mother Helena and
Israeli father moved after that prognosis.
Wheelchaired
in by his caretaker and now best friend Asaf, moustached
and goateed Ami is at first disconcerting, borne out by
shots of park-goers who stare and shy away. The arms are
skin over bones, his body is run by normal but tiny organs,
and he talks into a performer’s “’Madonna’
style” microphone although his yellow-subtitled speech
in English or Hebrew or a little Spanish, is soon understandable.
To his divorced parents’ objections, he announces
his “need to get the hell out of here . . . do stuff,
other things.” Concretely, he will motor across the
United States, his equivalent of climbing Everest “whatever
it takes,” for the purpose of confronting the Laredo,
Texas, doctor who despaired of his longevity and, unmentioned,
visiting there a brother estranged from the family he felt
gave all its attention to the disabled son, and possibly
riding the Harley Davidson tattooed on his atrophied upper
right arm.
“I can
and I will, I want to do it.”
With Ami’s
strong will and astringent humor front and center, and the
assistance of Ami’s family and friends, his Tioga
RV entourage, and Bob Marley’s “good people
we meet along the way,” young Israeli director/co-producer
Dani Menkin’s Ophir (Israel’s Oscar) Award-winning
film documents the cross-country journey and the courage
at its heart.
Hackneyed “inspirational”
is left-handed, a filler when we can’t think of a
suitable word. “Adventure” is better, and a
dangerous one, at that. Theatrical release is a day before
Thanksgiving, but the first press screening is in the underpublicized
National Disability Awareness Month of October, calling
to mind “Mask,” “The Elephant Man”
and “My Left Foot,” based on true stories but
nonetheless scripted and acted. In contrast to them, when
Ami weakens and nearly packs it in at the Grand Canyon,
where rangers are not doctors but he refuses Santa Fe hospitalization,
it is real, real time, real scary, as the camera grinds
and tourists gape. Aside from condensing forty-five minutes
on the front lawn into a tenth of that, the unannounced
stop at brother Oscar and family’s in Dallas, and
a totally surprise second visitor, is all spontaneous. “It’s
like I’m gonna pass out in a second. I need a drink,”
says a tearful reconciled Oscar.
Before the trip,
however, actual flashbacks disclose the immediate reason.
A talented 3D computer animator who can move only a single
finger on his left hand, he had fallen in love with Cristina,
his robust red-headed Romanian caretaker of two years. Drinking
with her charge and friends in bars or at a beach bonfire,
bathing or pushing him in parks, she “love[s] Ami,
okay; like a friend, not the love of two lovers.”
When he can stand no more of the situation, he sends her
away -- she is currently in her homeland -- and internalizes
for the first time that he is “completely different”
and begins the animated “yeah, a love story”
of a smitten bluebird’s efforts to win his ladylove
canary, sections of which appear throughout, accompanied
by Chris Gubisch’ original music.
Told like Christy
Brown’s parents to institutionalize her son, and like
them refusing, mother Helena realizes that the quest must
be made alone (of course in the company of those who attend
to the physical side of it). Adamant with his less stout-hearted,
increasingly concerned retinue, the seeker continues, California
to Laredo and on through the Southeast to Miami Beach and
an anticlimactic rendezvous with retired Cuban Dr. Cordova,
in #507 of “house of Dracula” condominiums.
Mixed desert families, service station attendants and sex
shop employees, religiously hybrid Miracle Church healers
and African-Americans who weigh nine times what he does,
are touched, and drawn to him, as are black-clad bikers
who lay on hands to bless and send him down the road in
the sidecar of, what else, a Harley.
Given life by
Ami’s my left finger, the bluebird retrieves the full
moon for his beloved. Back at his home monitor, at the end
of the birds’ story and of this phase of his own,
Ami thinks to Cristina that, “maybe in another life,
another physical body, we’ll be together.”
A center of much
love himself, this remarkable man is already very much together.